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Carol Szymanski's avatar

I bet most of us aired our frustration when we entered a “vicious circle.” But I was OLD before I discovered there was a such a thing as a “virtuous circle”—to me, it’s like you do good and pay it forward to create a circle of good. Once you have the vocabulary for it, you tend to believe in it and try to promote the virtuous circle.

Likewise, the German word “schadenfreude.” How many of us secretly practiced this only to learn we weren’t the only one? I just recently learned there’s the opposite! It’s freudenfreude. It means to take pleasure in the good that happens to others. It’s been thrilling to practice this actively and double the joy that is in the universe. I believe that we are all One. Wish good upon others and you’re actually wishing good upon yourself. How cool is that!!? That’s what I’m going to cultivate. The reap what you have sown idea from that five letter word book.

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Julia Forster's avatar

My favourite reference book is Roget's for sure. I had a copy for my 18th birthday and I used it through my twenties as a thesaurus. But the best application I found for it was unexpected: it came in super handy when I was breastfeeding; I used to rest my feet on it at the sofa as a little footstool. It was the perfect height to support my posture - and as a result is now very scuffed and well-loved!

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